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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 22.06.2025 16:43

How does one succeed in life?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

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Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

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Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Making more friends is a goal.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

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Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

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Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

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Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

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Procrastinates a lot.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

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Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Does not procrastinate.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

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Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

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An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Hangs out with loser friends.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

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First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

That's it for today.

How come Jesus died on Friday and rose on Sunday? That's not 3 days and three nights.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

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The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Ask yourself:

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

What I need from you?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Do not set goals—set systems.

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